Posted by: arbiyanti | August 18, 2011

Keeping promises = Make actions

Promises mean nothing if you can’t keep it. I will help you to understand that word. Make actions!

Yes, the hardest thing about promises is in keeping them and making the actions. This is how i illustrate promises: if you’re in a relationship, and the guy gives you the promise with thousand, beautiful words about marrying you one day..but it’s been like ages ever since he said that word and no actions to it, then…you may just let him go and free yourself from that guy. Of course it’s an extreme thing to do, but if someone can’t keep a promise or just can’t make actions from its promise, then why bother hoping for something.

No, i’m not brokenhearted. Seriously, i’ve never been involved in love relationship with someone that makes myself head over heel, so why do i sound like i’ve been hurt? Well, here’s the thing…one day i told somebody that i’ll be paying a visit to his country and he made it clear that it would be possible for us to meet. So when I gave him in advance date of my visitation, i was thinking how nice it would be to meet somebody that i’ve once known. But yeah..you can guess the rest of the story, right?! We never met. And at this very moment, i’m not interested in telling you the reason why we didn’t meet.

The thing is….you don’t give promises, if you know from the beginning that you just can’t keep them. Enough with words. Sometimes.. you just gotta show yourself up and let the people know that…it’s action that counts not words!

And you know what’s the saddest thing about being dissapointed from people who can’t keep their promises to you? It’s the feeling of…maybe i didn’t keep promise to someone else, maybe i did something bad to someone else, maybe.., maybe…, and so many maybes that come to my mind. By the end of the day, this is what i got: Dissapointment from promises that were not being kept.

 

Jakarta, 18. 08. 2011


Responses

  1. i’ve learnt a lesson: don’t ever let yourself expect much from someone. keep yourself staying alive ;) glg


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